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The Most Important Question Before Buying New Software

Lauren Mitchell · CTO·June 26, 2025·6 min read

There’s a single question that, asked honestly, prevents the majority of bad software purchases. It’s not in any vendor’s demo deck. It’s not in the standard procurement checklist. But it’s the difference between buying tools that change outcomes and buying tools that just join the pile.

The question is: “Does this match how we actually work?”

Why this question is hard

It sounds simple. It’s brutal. To answer it honestly, you have to know how you actually work — not how you think you work, not how the org chart says you work, but how the work really gets done.

Most companies don’t know. They have process documentation, but it doesn’t match reality. Reality includes the workarounds, the favors, the personal shortcuts, the unwritten rules. The documented workflow is the aspirational version. The actual workflow is what gets done.

Software gets bought against the aspirational version. The actual team experiences the gap.

How to answer honestly

Three techniques:

Watch, don’t ask. Sit with the people who’ll use the tool. For a day. Don’t ask them how they work. Observe. You’ll see the gaps between documented and actual immediately.

Trace one case end-to-end. Pick one specific deal, customer, or transaction. Follow it through every system, every person, every handoff. Write down what really happened. That’s how you actually work.

Check the workarounds. What spreadsheets exist? What Slack channels? What email threads contain decisions? Those are signals of where the documented workflow breaks down.

What to do with the answer

If the answer to “does this match how we actually work?” is yes — buy it. The tool will get adopted because it fits the existing reality.

If the answer is no, you have two choices:

  • Don’t buy it (the misfit will create workarounds, low adoption, and dissatisfaction)
  • Buy it AND commit to redesigning the workflow to match (acknowledge you’re buying a workflow change, not just a tool)

The mistake is buying it without the redesign commitment. Then the tool joins the pile and the workflow stays broken.

The vendor’s role

Good vendors will ask this question for you. They’ll spend the discovery process understanding your actual workflow. They’ll tell you when their tool fits and when it doesn’t.

Most vendors won’t. They’re incented to sell. They want you to believe their tool fits regardless. So the question becomes your responsibility.

The takeaway

The most important software decision is usually the one you make BEFORE evaluating any tool — the decision to understand your actual work first. Everything downstream of that gets easier. (See The Most Common Mistake Companies Make When Buying Software.)

About the author

Lauren Mitchell

CTO · FusionSales.ai

Lauren leads engineering at FusionSales.ai. She’s shipped custom software for healthcare, finance, and operations teams across the Southeast.

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